People talk about relationships a lot these days. We are constantly shown that men want immediate satisfaction with no strings attached and no commitment involved. The idea of a committed relationship appears to be a threat and an attack to their freedom…
If you are like me, you probably thought and felt many times that being guarded and protected keeps you from suffering, especially in love relationships.
I used to be like that. I used to be the Queen of self-defence mechanisms. I could have had a successful business in selling these mechanisms to people.
Most of the problems and suffering in love relationships come from a poor understanding of the difference between masculine and feminine energy. Men and women are different. They see relationships, love or sex from different perspectives.
Fear of loneliness is one of the biggest barriers in attracting a quality man in our lives. When you learn to love and accept yourself the way you are, people will be drawn to you like a magnet. All the energy and good vibe in you will become contagious and men will just want to be around you.