People talk about relationships a lot these days. We are constantly shown that men want immediate satisfaction with no strings attached and no commitment involved. The idea of a committed relationship appears to be a threat and an attack to their freedom…
If you are like me, you probably thought and felt many times that being guarded and protected keeps you from suffering, especially in love relationships.
I used to be like that. I used to be the Queen of self-defence mechanisms. I could have had a successful business in selling these mechanisms to people.
Have you ever felt like falling crazy in love with a man who showers you with attention and a lot of interest in the first days of dating? Only to feel that soon after this period, things start to crumple and you get a little voice inside that tells you something is not right?
Most of the problems and suffering in love relationships come from a poor understanding of the difference between masculine and feminine energy. Men and women are different. They see relationships, love or sex from different perspectives.